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HURT CYCLE
We are all born into this world without any form of hurt, anxiety or fear.
It is these same things that creep into our lives, mostly unnoticed and seemingly innocent, that often start a cycle of pain, and in many instances a cycle of self destruction that shape a big part of my life.
The cycle is seldom identifiable as it seems to be just another part of who I am. Some will call it “life happens” but in fact it is highly destructive and has a major impact on my behaviour and ultimately my life path.
It can be compared to a hand of cards I was dealt. I never chose them, I simple received them from the dealer and I have no choice but to play with the hand I am dealt.
Important to note that in almost every case I did not do any wrong to deserve any of this but my hand is my hand and if do not notice or understand the game or its rules I have no way to opt out and stop playing.
Satan wants to keep me trapped in the hurt cycle by setting me up to fight myself in the flesh.
He uses his silent weapons of destruction against me - doubt, offence, shame, fear.
He gets my mind to fight myself and when I’m fighting myself there’s always only one looser - ME.
The hurt cycle will not only repeat itself but it will get worse over time with major implications on my life if I don’t choose to exit it once I have clearly identified it in my life.
Finally, by choosing to end its destructive pattern I also have the opportunity to prevent it from being passed on to my children when I, mostly unknowingly, hurt them and through them pass it on to my generations to come.
This free simple book is meant for self reflection and self healing and as a guide on how to exit the hurt cycle.